Community Guidelines

Toyboy Warehouse is the UK’s largest dating site for older women and younger men, founded in 2006 on the belief that online dating should be fun and empower singles to go after what they really want.

Since starting out, many couples have met on the site, moved in together, married, and started their own adventures. Many people prefer to date more casually and find this a rewarding and confidence-boosting experience. We’re here for both.

Our mission is to create a sexy and fun space for you to meet like-minded singles, and your safety is of the utmost importance to us.

Toyboy Warehouse is a site for single people, so we do not allow anyone who is married to become a member. To maintain a high quality of potential suitors all profiles and photos are manually approved and we do not allow any explicit content on the site.

Accepting our terms and becoming a Toyboy Warehouse member means you agree that you will not:

• not breach any applicable law or regulation in connection with or related to the Services;
• not publish or send any Member Content or communications which are false or misleading, sexually explicit, sexually suggestive, vulgar, indecent, obscene, racist, xenophobic, abusive, unlawful, deceitful, invasive of another’s privacy, offensive, harmful, violent, threatening, harassing, stalking, defamatory, an infringement of third party intellectual property or other rights or which encourages or assists any of the foregoing;
• not reveal through the Services any information (including last name, postal/email address or telephone number) that enables you or any other Member or user to be personally identified or contacted other than through the Site or the Services;
• not publish or send any Member Content which links to any third party website which is illegal or contains inappropriate content;
• not use the Services for any commercial, professional or non-private purposes (including advertising, canvassing, soliciting, trading, prostitution); or
• not use the Services for junk mail, spam and pyramid or similar or fraudulent schemes;
• not use the service to solicit money from another user for compensated dating, companionship or any other reason.

We reserve the right in our sole discretion to cancel any membership (whether paid or free) if the member has breached any term of this agreement (including, without limitation, by providing false information or a false photograph) or violated any rule of our Code Of Conduct outlined below:

a) not to use the Site to sell sexual services;

b) not to use sexually explicit language or photos;

c) not to cause distress by revealing intimate knowledge of other Members;

d) not to use the Site to publicise other services or products without our express permission;

e) not to ask for money from another Member (or any other user) for whatever reason;

f) no racism, sexism, homophobia, or general hate speech;

If any member is reported for making comments/ acting out in this vein, they will be permanently removed from the site.

g) no malicious gossip;

h) no spamming of contact details on free upgrade days;

Any member reported for spamming will be permanently removed. No correspondence will be entered into.

i) no “naming and shaming” in the public areas of the site, i.e. forums and bar;

The comments will be removed and the offending member will first be warned and then permanently removed if the behaviour is repeated.

j) if admins have to remove a post they find offensive, inflammatory, or not constructive to a thread, an admin will write to the poster explaining why their post was removed. Admin will not get into a debate about it.

k) In all cases of reported abuse, unless admins and the bar moderator have seen it first hand, we will need to see screenshots;

Pasting text can be manipulated and is not enough. Without a screenshot, we will not be able to action the abuse.

Any user or member that is reported and found to be breaching the code of conduct will be permanently removed from the site within 24 hours of being reported.

If a user feels admins/ moderators have not carried out the above appropriately, users can present their case to admins.